My friend Amber ({Maz}’s girlfriend, not my neice :dorkygrin: ) sent me this email yesterday. Kind of lame, but it helped me anyway. I got lots of calls and emails yesterday, thanks everyone. 🙂
John is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good mood
and always has something positive to say. When someone would ask him
how he was doing, he would reply, “If I were any better, I would be
twins!”He was a natural motivator.
If an employee was having a bad day, John was there telling the
employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up and
asked him, “I don’t get it! You can’t be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?”He replied, “Each morning I wake up and say to myself, you have two
choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or … you can
choose to be in a bad mood. I choose to be in a good mood.”Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or…I
can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it.Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept
their complaining or… I can point out the positive side of life. I
choose the positive side of life.“Yeah, right, it’s not that easy,” I protested.
“Yes, it is,” he said. “Life is all about choices. When you cut away
all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to
situations. You choose how people affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It’s your choice how you live your life.”I reflected on what he said. Soon hereafter, I left the Tower Industry
to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought about him
when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.Several years later, I heard that he was involved in a serious
accident, falling some 60 feet from a communications tower.After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, he was released
from the hospital with rods placed in his back. I saw him about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, “If I were any better, I’d be twins…Wanna see my scars?”I declined to see his wounds, but I did ask him what had gone through
his mind as the accident took place.“The first thing that went through my mind was the well-being of my
soon-to-be born daughter,” he replied. “Then, as I lay on the ground,
I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live or…I
could choose to die. I chose to live.”“Weren’t you scared? Did you lose consciousness?” I asked.
He continued, “..the paramedics were great.
They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me
into the ER and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and
nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read ‘he’s a dead man’.
I knew I needed to take action.”“What did you do?” I asked.
“Well, there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me,” said
John. “She asked if I was allergic to anything. ‘Yes, I replied.’ The
doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took
a deep breath and yelled, ‘Gravity’.”Over their laughter, I told them, “I am choosing to live. Operate on
me as if I am alive, not dead.”He lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his
amazing attitude… I learned from him that every day we have the
choice to live fully.Attitude, after all, is everything .
Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about
itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” Matthew 6:34.After all today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.
I’m choosing not to be a victim. 🙂